Use `IsBlacklistedOrBackingOff` from the federation API to check if we
should fetch devices.
To reduce back pressure, we now only queue retrying servers if there's
space in the channel.
This makes the following changes:
- Adds two new metrics observing the usage of the `DeviceListUpdater`
workers
- Makes the number of workers configurable
- Adds a 30s timeout for DB requests when receiving a device list update
over federation
I hope the comments explain the changes.
`notifyWorkers` notifies a worker which then calls `processServer`,
which in turn gets all users and calls `processServerUser`. There is no
need to call `processServer` for the same domain on startup.
Preparations to actually remove/replace `BaseDendrite`.
Quite a few changes:
- SyncAPI accepts an `fulltext.Indexer` interface (fulltext is removed
from `BaseDendrite`)
- Caches are removed from `BaseDendrite`
- Introduces a `Router` struct (likely to change)
- also fixes#2903
- Introduces a `sqlutil.ConnectionManager`, which should remove
`base.DatabaseConnection` later on
- probably more
