e1000: Try auto-negotiation for fixed 100 or 10 configuration

This is a retread of https://reviews.freebsd.org/D34449 which I think
will fix the issue for the remote side not supporting autoneg.  We now
attempt an autoneg, and if that fails fall back to the current code
that forces the link speed/duplex.

The original intent of this patch is to inform the remote switch of
duplex settings when we (the client) are specifying a fixed 10 or 100
speed.  Otherwise it may get the duplex setting wrong.

The tricky case is when the remote (switch) side is fixing its
speed AND duplex while disabling autoneg and we (client) need to do
the same, which still seems to be common enough at some ISPs.

Original commit message follows:
Currently if an e1000 interface is set to a fixed media configuration,
for gigabit, it will participate in auto-negotiation as required by
IEEE 802.3-2018 Clause 37. However, if set to fixed media configuration
for 100 or 10, it does NOT participate in auto-negotiation.

By my reading of Clauses 28 and 37, while auto-negotiation is optional
for 100 and 10, it is not prohibited and is, in fact, "highly
recommended".

This patch enables auto-negotiation for fixed 100 and 10 media
configuration, in a similar manner to that already performed for 1000.
I.e., the patch enables advertising of just the manually configured
settings with the goal of allowing the remote end to match the manually
configured settings if it has them available.

To be clear, this patch does NOT allow an em(4) interface that has been
manually configured with specific media settings to respond to
auto-negotiation by then configuring different parameters to those that
were manually configured. The intent of this patch is to fully comply
with the requirements of Clause 37, but for 100 and 10.

The need for this has arisen on an em(4) link where the other end is
under a different administrative control and is set to full
auto-negotiation. Due to the cable length GigE is not working well. It
is desired to set the em(4) end to "media 100baseTX mediatype
full-duplex" which does work when both ends are configured that way.
Currently, because em(4) does not participate in autoneg for this
setting, the remote defaults to half-duplex - i.e., there's a duplex
mismatch and things don't work. With this patch, em(4) would inform the
remote that it has only 100baseTX full, the remote would match that and
it will work.

Tested by:	Natalino Picone <natalino.picone@nozominetworks.com>
Tested by:	Franco Fichtner <franco@opnsense.org>
Tested by:	J.R. Oldroyd <fbsd@opal.com> (previous version)
Sponsored by:	Nozomi Networks
Sponsored by:	BBOX.io
Differential Revision:	https://reviews.freebsd.org/D47336

sys/dev/e1000/e1000_phy.c

@@ -1707,9 +1707,10 @@ s32 e1000_setup_copper_link_generic(struct e1000_hw *hw)
 		 * autonegotiation.
 		 */
 		ret_val = e1000_copper_link_autoneg(hw);
-		if (ret_val)
+		if (ret_val && !hw->mac.forced_speed_duplex)
 			return ret_val;
-	} else {
+	}
+	if (!hw->mac.autoneg || (ret_val && hw->mac.forced_speed_duplex)) {
 		/* PHY will be set to 10H, 10F, 100H or 100F
 		 * depending on user settings.
 		 */

sys/dev/e1000/if_em.c

@@ -1835,7 +1835,18 @@ em_if_media_status(if_ctx_t ctx, struct ifmediareq *ifmr)
 	    (sc->hw.phy.media_type == e1000_media_type_internal_serdes)) {
 		if (sc->hw.mac.type == e1000_82545)
 			fiber_type = IFM_1000_LX;
-		ifmr->ifm_active |= fiber_type | IFM_FDX;
+		switch (sc->link_speed) {
+		case 10:
+			ifmr->ifm_active |= IFM_10_FL;
+			break;
+		case 100:
+			ifmr->ifm_active |= IFM_100_FX;
+			break;
+		case 1000:
+		default:
+			ifmr->ifm_active |= fiber_type | IFM_FDX;
+			break;
+		}
 	} else {
 		switch (sc->link_speed) {
 		case 10:
@@ -1848,11 +1859,12 @@ em_if_media_status(if_ctx_t ctx, struct ifmediareq *ifmr)
 			ifmr->ifm_active |= IFM_1000_T;
 			break;
 		}
-		if (sc->link_duplex == FULL_DUPLEX)
-			ifmr->ifm_active |= IFM_FDX;
-		else
-			ifmr->ifm_active |= IFM_HDX;
 	}
+
+	if (sc->link_duplex == FULL_DUPLEX)
+		ifmr->ifm_active |= IFM_FDX;
+	else
+		ifmr->ifm_active |= IFM_HDX;
 }
 
 /*********************************************************************
@@ -1886,6 +1898,26 @@ em_if_media_change(if_ctx_t ctx)
 		sc->hw.phy.autoneg_advertised = ADVERTISE_1000_FULL;
 		break;
 	case IFM_100_TX:
+		sc->hw.mac.autoneg = DO_AUTO_NEG;
+		if ((ifm->ifm_media & IFM_GMASK) == IFM_FDX) {
+			sc->hw.phy.autoneg_advertised = ADVERTISE_100_FULL;
+			sc->hw.mac.forced_speed_duplex = ADVERTISE_100_FULL;
+		} else {
+			sc->hw.phy.autoneg_advertised = ADVERTISE_100_HALF;
+			sc->hw.mac.forced_speed_duplex = ADVERTISE_100_HALF;
+		}
+		break;
+	case IFM_10_T:
+		sc->hw.mac.autoneg = DO_AUTO_NEG;
+		if ((ifm->ifm_media & IFM_GMASK) == IFM_FDX) {
+			sc->hw.phy.autoneg_advertised = ADVERTISE_10_FULL;
+			sc->hw.mac.forced_speed_duplex = ADVERTISE_10_FULL;
+		} else {
+			sc->hw.phy.autoneg_advertised = ADVERTISE_10_HALF;
+			sc->hw.mac.forced_speed_duplex = ADVERTISE_10_HALF;
+		}
+		break;
+	case IFM_100_FX:
 		sc->hw.mac.autoneg = false;
 		sc->hw.phy.autoneg_advertised = 0;
 		if ((ifm->ifm_media & IFM_GMASK) == IFM_FDX)
@@ -1893,7 +1925,7 @@ em_if_media_change(if_ctx_t ctx)
 		else
 			sc->hw.mac.forced_speed_duplex = ADVERTISE_100_HALF;
 		break;
-	case IFM_10_T:
+	case IFM_10_FL:
 		sc->hw.mac.autoneg = false;
 		sc->hw.phy.autoneg_advertised = 0;
 		if ((ifm->ifm_media & IFM_GMASK) == IFM_FDX)